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Why did he?
Why didn’t she?
Why won’t they?
Why can’t I?
Go ahead: Fill in the blanks.
Then consider how many times you:
Thought you knew all the answers.
Judged a person or situation.
Felt all the drama.
Took stray advice.
Then:
Found out you were wrong.
Or worse:
Hit replay and repeated the same scenario!
Now consider this:
Sometimes the wrong things happen for the right reasons.
What We Offer: Evidence that loving and not losing yourself, when faced with disappointments or broken promises, CAN lead to happily-ever-after and that messy moments are often invitations to fall more deeply in love – with you. This is the place where we connect the dots between endings and beginnings by offering you a view of how we merged our endings with REAL beginnings, as is found in our story and all facets of our work, home and play.
Who We Are: We are an “almost divorced should not have made it with our baggage” couple who learned to love and forgive and somehow, after working our butts off, wound up with a pretty decent marriage. We’re not experts. We’re not even celebrities. And we don’t have a reality TV show. But we do have a book and a little bit of experience, strength and hope to share in the relationship department – uncensored. What went wrong then and what is working now.
On This Website You Will Find:
A book: Bernadette's Pages: An Intimate Crossroad is a frontline journal that captures the miracle of a new relationship with self. These pages share a love story of a different kind, one that shows you how to not lose yourself when confronted with disappointments and broken promises. See video book trailer.
A home sanctuary: Enlightened Interiors offers a way of inviting new beginnings and healing into your home through Muse-Fusion, a unique blend of heart, home, and lifestyle support that shows you how to make any personal space feel good, no matter what the size or what your budget.
An art gallery:Dress up your walls or fire up your muse with artistic creations that offer a view into the ongoing creative collaboration birthed between us as a couple.
A blog: Musings from the Messy Room ties it all together with a collage of beautiful messes and lifestyle tips that inspire you to explore, grow and embrace your own personal dance with endings and beginnings.